Had an interesting conversation with two little gals recently (2 of them are sharing a MSN account in this converstion. The different colour represents different people)
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someone@hotmail.com says:
hi again noth to say la hahahahahaha
someone@hotmail.com says:
huh
someone@hotmail.com says:
funny face
someone@hotmail.com says:
is Miss X
someone@hotmail.com says:
she love u n admire you too!!!
someone@hotmail.com says:
no!
someone@hotmail.com says:
that one is Miss O
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
huh???
someone@hotmail.com says:
oh my heart broken...
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
huh??
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
i'm confused.
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
about???
someone@hotmail.com says:
hie hie.... Miss X love u soooo much lol
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
???
someone@hotmail.com says:
i joking la
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
i love all of u too!
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
you all are my little nieces mah!
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
BUT, it's a healthy kinship love!
someone@hotmail.com says:
oh ok ok yeah i love u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
www.kermitkhoo.blogspot.com says:
yes yes, me too!
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Is it wrong to love/have feelings for another person of the same gender? No way??? Why should it be. I like many girls and women out there with a healthy love. Among them is my mother, sister, granny, nieces, gal friends. Am I a lesbian? Of course not! So please don't go round teasing people lesbians or gays.
Things only get distorted when say a girl like another girl beyond the normal friendship and starts fantasying about being in a special relationship with her. Or worse, having sex with one another. This is sick! Yucks.
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Thursday, December 07, 2006
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2 comments:
Well it is true that people at times can be confused about love.
I agree with you that there is nothing wrong in loving someone of the same gender => Father + son. Mother + daughter, friends of the same gender.
Love is more than just that between BF and GF. There is fatherly love, motherly love, brotherly love and sisterly love.
We need such love to be a healthy individual. I have noticed that friends who have good relationship with their parents and siblings are caring people and have good relationship with other people too.
Talking about "love" for the same gender during puberty, I think it's a phase teens go through, especially girls.
I have a student who confessed she "loved" her senior (for the 2 years I walked her through it).
I realised it's better not to judge or condemn or put down the person. Hear her out and her struggles. Help her to single out it's likely to be admiration for a certain quality about the person she is attracted to. (In this case, the girl was her CCA student leader, smart, very outgoing and sociable). Get her to realise the different types of love. And what couple type of love really requires.
End of it she still had to suffer the heartbreak of one-sided love unresponded when the senior graduated from school, even though she knew she shouldnt do anything to initiate, and she kept to her word not to. Yet it's still puppy love. Haha, she got over it within days. Diao :p
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